Beep, Beep, Beep

That is the sound of Nate and I scanning for our gift registries.  For two people who have been together for as long as we have, one would think we had a few things to our name.  The truth is, we have lived like nomads for the past 7 years and as a result have been able to acquire nothing.  I can't say I am bothered by that, its almost a refreshing feeling to begin with a clean slate.  Up until now, we have used second-hand kitchen gadgets...or whatever the hockey teams decided to throw in our cupboards which left a lot to be desired.  So the thought of a properly supplied kitchen we can call our own is very appealing.  However, I thought registering would have been a little more enjoyable. I was really looking forward to it.  Once we actually got going, we both found it to be more overwhelming than anything.  Where do you start when you don't have a washcloth or utensil to your name?  Lets just say there was a lot of beeping going on.  It didn't help that we were lost in a sea of overpriced merchandise either.  Only adding to the issue, he and I have a difficult time spending our own money on just about anything, how could we ask someone else to buy it for us?  In the world of wedding etiquette, registering for gifts is sometimes frowned upon.  Did you know that?  And including information about your registries in your invites can be gasp "inappropriate and greedy?"  So now at the risk of appearing greedy, we are questioning whether or not to supply our registry information to our guests.  And only give that information if asked about it. Ugghhh, really? All this silliness over a registry?

On a brighter side, though registering was overwhelming and made us question our morals kidding, we had very pleasant experiences with the establishments we chose.  They could almost sense our hesitance and tried to make it as enjoyable as possible for us.  Both places hosted private scanning events, where registered couples can enjoy scanning without the public crowds, they offered demonstrations of popular registry items which lead to delicious smoothies, paninis, french fries, lattes...we signed up for door prizes, left with unbelievable goodie bags that included such things as crystal wine goblets, sets of soup spoons, cast iron ministovens, glass vases, gift cards, cookbooks, the list goes on.  I am thankful for the experience, afterall thats what being an engaged couple is all about right?  New experiences, together as bride and groom.